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Can Someone BECOME your Twin Flame?!? Relieving the Psychological Stress of Waiting for “The One


This may seem like wishful thinking. The idea that your ideal match, your twin soul, the one who can help you to reach your highest potential, is not someone who is elusive, as is popularly believed, but rather the person right in front of you is monumental! But could it be true??!!

Let’s take a look at twin flame lure… You can read a lot on the internet about twin flames. You will read predictions of when “union” will finally happen. You can find descriptions of the runners (partners who run away from the relationship) and chasers. You will find justifications of why partners just aren’t ready to coexist harmoniously with their other halves.

But what if it were easier than this? What if it isn’t about finding that one being, through time and space, that one divine love match who is somewhere on this great big planet (or perhaps not even incarnated now!)… What if the very partner (or potential partner) that you have in front of you could be your twin flame?!

If we understand the history of this we can see why it is not such a radical idea. The idea of a twin soul is someone who shares energy, intention, a vision, love, etc with you. But the amazing thing is that energy is DYNAMIC. That means that it is changing. So someone can learn from your vibration, your patterns, from spending time with you, from sharing energy with you, etc. And you can learn from, and adjust to them, and you can even grow love between you.

So the idea that someone must be instantly recognizable as your twin overlooks the POTENTIAL that every soul has to connect to every other soul in existence. Yes, a special connection can be CREATED with intention and some time. 

So before you brush off that nice person that doesn’t seem to be “twin flame” material, consider whether you might be able to align with their soul and realize the twin flame dream of union where you both ascend to high potentials together.  Together you can do wonderful things for yourselves and the world. ??

Dr. Rahman Beckwith integrates Positive Psychology and spirituality to create unique approaches to wellness. A graduate of Princeton University, she is a global speaker and author of many books available on and her website  Follow her Facebook page Holistic Therapy with Dr. Rahman and her Instagram, Dr.RahmanBeckwith, for more updates!
















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